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Thank you for taking time out of your life12/27/2023 Your advice has made me think very differently, and I feel you are spot on. It’ll be hard not having my best friend here with me physically but I know I’ll learn how to manage. I’ve done some activities that I enjoy and went out with family for dinner. Thank you so much for your response, I’m feeling slightly less anxious after taking much time for myself. I am grateful that you are part of this group and I am saving your response to contemplate further each time I may feel myself gravitating back to the thought of kids. I feel the sincerity in your words and thank you immensely for the wisdom. I am so glad you chose to answer my question. Your answer, quite frankly, was both succinct and beautiful and gave me pause just because of how much it all made sense. All my related elders are no longer with me to share their wisdom, kindness, and warmth. Do you think it is possible and healthy for us to remain friends and in each other’s lives after I find my hobbies? You are a god send and an angel among mere mortals and I am forever grateful for you time, your wisdom, your words and your sincerity. I won’t even try and use mere words to try and express my gratitude for this beautiful, sensitive, honest and perfect advice. With tears in my eyes and peace in my soul, I say thank you is not enough for the response. Thank you for your advice! I guess I know what to try now. Thank you so much, this has given me some hope, you don't know how much your attention to me has made me happy, thank you again :) Sorry if I ramble too much but thank you for your advice, I honestly don't know if we would've made it through this if you hadn't wrote back to me. Some people advised me to throw in the towel but if you truly love somebody you try your best to work things out. I know no marriage is perfect, and we'll more than likely have some more ups and downs but we're both learning to sit and listen to each other and learning to maturely and calmly work things out. We both value our family and our marriage, in the last few weeks he's been more attentive to me and He's doing activities with our kids again. He was diagnosed with Depression and has since been put on medication. We both decided to go to marriage counseling and individual counseling for our pasts and honestly I think we're starting to get healthier than we've ever been. We talked and hugged things out but we both knew that wasn't going to be the end of the conversation. He admitted to me that he had been feeling quite low about himself and just couldn't figure out why he was feeling that way and that he felt ashamed and that because I am the one who works, he didn't want to put any more pressure on me. Finally when our kids were asleep, we sat down in the living room and talked like actually talked for the first time in a long time and we even cried together. Thank you so much for taking the time to write a letter of kind words and advice and I really appreciate you telling your story! As I sat here and read your letter, I took a long while on how I was going to have a conversation with my husband. I told her that I am just curious to know if she is still interested in completing the project. ![]() I kept it simple as you advised and just asked if she was still interested and told her that the deposit was not a consideration. I actually had saved the text message from our conversation of 2020 regarding the painting and used that link.
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